Before committing to a serious relationship one of the most important factors that you need to have established is trust. Without trust the relationship can never move forward. Most people have problems with trust either from observing a rocky relationship at home with their parents, or tproblems in their own past relationships. If you are going be with someone new you have to leave the past behind you. You cant let problems from an old relationship carry over into a new one. It should be a fresh start and an oppurtunity to try to find real love. Most times when someone has a problem with trust they tend to have a guard up and aren't to quick to let people in, and show the person they really are.You can not love someone if you dont trust them, its impossible the two go hand and hand. If you have a problem with trust you have to deal with them as soon as possible. Lack of trust can bring on problems with respect, honesty, and infidelity. So before committing to a serious relationship please make sure you have a complete understanding, on were you stand with your ability to trust and be trusted. That conversation can help you lay the ground work for the foundation of a long lasting relationship, and hopefully a beautiful marriage.
Tavaris & Chiquita
What are your thoughts?
Let's first look at the definition of TRUST:
ReplyDeleteTRUST : assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something
Many relationship and marriages struggle with this for a few reasons 1. Some people can't trust themselves 2. Since my last relationship was destroyed because of trust I can't trust nobody. When we get in relationships we have to open ourselves up to be hurt thats just one thing you must do. In one season or another trust will be tested to the extreme just to see if you can hold on thru the sunshine and rain. But if your trust and faith is in God then even though you may feel like your walking thru the valley of the shadow of death you won't fear because THOU ART WITH YOU. You also understand that you made a vow before God that you would do what it take to make your marriage work. Now if you have not for some reason got your own personal trust issues dealt with my advise to you is DON"T GET MARRIED because then you take your own issues in with the potential of destroying something new.